Nostalgic or Cheesy? How to get your wedding playlist just right!
Planning your wedding is such an exciting whirlwind - we know just how fun it can be (and overwhelming too at times!) Then, when you start thinking about the music, there are so many possibilities! Live band, DJ, someone to tinkle the ivories as you eat your post-ceremony canapes!? Particularly for the reception, you want those tunes that get your feet tapping, the ones that get everyone on the dance floor. So how do you ensure it's heartwarming nostalgia and not that awfully cheesy number your aunt insists on requesting at every family gathering? In this blog, we’re here to help!
It feels like everyone loves taking a little trip down memory lane lately. You see it everywhere – those old cartoons popping up on your Instagram feed, throwback fashion making a comeback... It's like we're all a little bit obsessed with the good old days! But why is that?
Well, when things feel a bit uncertain or are changing super fast (which, let's be honest, life often does!), looking back at familiar things can feel comforting and safe. Those old songs and memories are like a warm hug! Plus, sharing those "remember when?" moments with people can be a great way to connect when life is busy. Think about belting out some classic '90s or ‘00s tune with your friends – instant good times! In a way, the music we loved growing up becomes part of who we are, so revisiting it feels like reliving our past.
Now, when it comes to your wedding, a little bit of that nostalgic magic can really hit the spot. But we also want to avoid a situation where your guests are politely nodding along to something obscure from your secondary school days that no one else has ever heard! So, how do we nail that perfect playlist balance?
Here are a few tips to keep those wedding vibes just right:
1. Consider your guests (not just you two!): Of course, your tastes are super important – it's your day! But remember, you've got all sorts of people coming to celebrate with you. Think about the different ages and what kind of music gets them tapping their feet. Is it ‘I Want It That Way’ by The Backstreet Boys (a Wonderboy favourite!) or ‘Dancing On the Ceiling’ by Lionel Richie (The DLB love this one!). A playlist that's all very specific to your journey might leave some of your guests feeling a little lost on the dance floor. Consider how to include something for everyone.
2. Be creative and mix it up: Variety is your best friend here! Let's aim for a lovely blend of those nostalgic gems you adore, some current hits that everyone knows and loves, and maybe even some timeless classics that just make you want to dance - the 70s and 80s are a great era for these tunes. For example, The DLB loves to rock out ‘Jump’ by Van Halen. This way, there's a little something for everyone to enjoy, and the energy stays fun and exciting all night long.
3. Get the timing right: Consider the different parts of your day. When everyone's arriving, some upbeat and happy tunes are ideal to set the mood. For your first dance and those more tender moments, you might want something slower - or faster, depending on your story as a couple! And then, when the party really gets going? That's when you can bring out some of those fun, maybe slightly cheesier (in the best way!) nostalgic bangers! Dropping them in when the dancefloor is already full will ensure everyone’s in the right mood for memory lane. For example, the Zed Men never fail to pack out the dance floor when they play ‘I Bet That You Look Good On The Dance Floor’ by the Arctic Monkeys!
4. Be real about the cheese factor: Okay, we all have those songs we secretly love but maybe wouldn't play out loud in everyday life! Be honest with yourselves about what might cross the line from "aww, remember this?" to "oh no, not this again!" Sometimes those sentimental tracks are best kept for a private disco in your car!
5. Give the classics a refresh: Don't be afraid to mix things up a bit! A cool modern remix of a classic song can be such a fun way to bridge the generations and get everyone moving. It keeps that familiar feeling but with a fresh twist! For instance, Electra Verse does a fantastic version of ‘Waterfalls’ by TLC!
6. Ask for help: Feeling a bit overwhelmed by all the choices? We’re here to help - our fantastic live bands and DJs have lots of experience reading crowds and creating a playlist that keeps everyone happy and doesn’t skip a beat. Share your "must-haves" and your "absolutely nots," and let us work our magic!
Above all, remember that putting together your wedding playlist should be a fun part of the planning and not something to get stressed about! By thinking about your guests, mixing up the tunes, and being a little bit clever with some new twists on old tunes, we don’t doubt you'll be able to create a wedding soundtrack that everyone will love and remember for years to come. Now go get those perfect songs lined up – it's going to be an amazing day! And don’t forget, as always, we’re here to help. Chat to us on Whatsapp or book a no-obligation consultation with us and let’s get to know each other.
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